Friday, April 9, 2010

When is the right time to get married and have children??

This question was popped out from one of the Radio station DJ in Singapore.
When is the right time to get married and have children ??
Some replied getting married early, then having children early as well as retired early
Some replied getting married first, delay having children, think later about retirement
Some replied getting married later, then having children, as well as later retirement

Well, there's no right or wrong answer. But it's all depend on your plan.
If you feel that you want to retire early and enjoy life more, get married and have children early
But if you want to advance your career first, just delay your married and children but of course you won't be free from responsibility even though your age has reach the retirement age

Well, The truth is if you're married and want to delay having children 'cos of money..it's just excuses. When you have children, you will do the best you can to provide for your kids although it won't be ideal arrangement that you want because it's simply human nature.
Perhaps you want to be full time mommy when you can always be with your kids, watch their growth and nurture them, but if you need double income, you will have alternative arrangement

Those are just my thought and hopefully whoever read this or even Richie later on, may think again if you want to delay having children...
Having children is a blessing and privilege, if you reject this blessing, it may not come by twice and you must wait long long for the queue hehe...

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