Mom always knows the best

Mommy wants to write this quite sometimes ago. But because of one and other reasons, it keeps postponing
Anyway, I just want to highlight the title Mom always knows the best for their kids
because mom has been given the greatest gift from God which is Motherly instinct.

This fact is not only from my own experience but also my observations to other mommies and kids.
From my own experience, I know for sure what my kid can or can't do and the limitations
whenever he plays, falls, eats, drinks, sleeps etc.
Of course as first mommy, I was confused in the beginning especially the first few months of his life.
It's because of too much information and influence either from the books, parents, relatives, friends or other experienced mommy.

I was busy comparing Richie with the charts guideline, other kids milestone etc and became stressful.
After Richie was reaching 1 year old, mommy has enough confidence to handle Richie based on intuition and seldom reading the book by "expert" or comparing with other kids, unless there's a big problem that need to be attended.

Mommy knows whether Richie could manage his own when he's playing indoor or outdoor, and whether Richie needs to be carried or not whenever he cries or fall down.
Mommy knows whether Richie likes or dislikes the food, or whenever he wants to play with food.

Last but not least, for whoever mommy, especially first time mommy.
You know your kids the best and nobody knows the best but you, nor your parents, relatives, friends, books etc.
Your kids are unique and you can't compare them with other kids and sometimes you can't apply what it says in the book, or end up it will make both of you stressful.
If someone tries to convince something that you don't feel it suitable for your kids, tell him/her that I know what best for my kids.


Sometimes even your mom or mom in law tries to persuade you applying what she did to you when you're kids, it may or may not applicable to your kids now, therefore don't worry, don't bother and don't be stressful, just follow your motherly intuition. 


good luck moms !